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The fact is that people are good if only their fundamental wishes are satisfied, their wish for affection and security.
Give people affection and security, and they will give affection and be secure in their feelings and their behavior.
When people appear to be something other than good and decent, it is only because they are reacting to stress, pain, or the deprivation of basic human needs such as security, love, and self-esteem.
Clothing and fashion are kind of my security blanket, almost.